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Fibonacci Sequence Revisited

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Fibonacci Revisited

An old story seems to fit here. Jesus saw infants being suckled. He said to His disciples, “These infants being suckled are like those who enter the Kingdom.” They said to Him, “Shall we then, as children, enter the Kingdom?” Jesus said to them, “When you make the two one, and when you make the inside like the outside and the outside like the inside, and the above like the below, and when you make the male and the female into a single one, so that the male not be male nor the female; and when you fashion eyes in the place of an eye, and a hand in place of a hand, and a foot in place of a foot, and an image in the place of an image; then will you enter [the Kingdom].”

Does this suggest that we truly are able to create our bodies? How? Sounds like a really interesting ‘spin’ on things, eh? Quantum discoveries allude to the possibility of our outer realities being an outpicturing of our internal belief systems. The incongruence in humanity’s behavior is simply a manifestation of false belief systems built over millennia. Time for a change? Is it possible we are cosmic consciousness condensed into form becoming aware of the fact?

With your permission I would like to share a few things about the development of cosmic physics, spindoctors of the new millennium, and personal experience. I hope that the structure of my writing and the vocabulary is understandable. I Am quite open to questions should the need arise. I may not have all the answers. I have experienced many modes of communication over the years, yet I find that expressing myself authentically resonates with the integrity of my heart.

Many messengers choose to use people who are open to channel and/or have a propensity for connecting with the etheric airwaves much like modern media outlets. They usually intend for you to believe them as undisputed truth. I ask that you not believe a thing I am about to present. Just read with an open mind and ask your own intelligence to reveal any truth.

Advances in quantum physics and spirituality are leading the way for humanity to discover just how connected things are in the holistic view on Planet Earth. Even new spiritual cinema producers are finding ways to display inner experiences on an external screen with animation that is quite close to the view from within. Discovering doorways or portals into other worlds happens quite naturally when one is open to it and has the right set of circumstances prevailing in the moment.

Spiritual paths converge as one finds their own Divine Blueprint unfolding in the blink of an eye, forever changing their lives and critical understanding of the Nature of Creation. Many find these openings and, not quite sure what to do, often never return because of the difficulty in bridging the worlds of experience that develop from further exploration. Sometimes it just seems so unreal that the mind, in its current state of confusion, is unable to relinquish control and inhibits further development. Balancing inner and outer realities is an age-old dilemma.

Spindoctors of a different sort…

merkanimaThe image on the right is a collection of mathematical computations using the Fibonacci sequence, arriving at a quite interesting graphic presentation. A discussion with a friend regarding the figure and about sacred geometry facilitated a most intriguing experience in meditation. We had been discussing the investigation of  the ‘X’ factor that modern alchemists are theorizing that, when discovered, will bridge worlds within the quantum and hyperdimensional physics, allowing humans to expand their awareness into other dimensions. Current information regarding ‘Merkaba Meditations’ also allude to this capacity. While contemplating our conversation just before meditating, I was reminded of some recent discoveries that may be of interest regarding inner portals and the bridging of worlds.

Much of this information has been present in many ancient texts and even some current pieces available on the Net. A simple keyword search will reveal much. There are ‘keys’ that allow the ‘seeker of truth,’ the ‘mystery school initiate’ or the ‘spiritual devotee’ to access more profound and simple truths in the organizational matrix of Creation. This access has been happening in unprecedented numbers within the last few years it appears.

Some, like myself, are particularly open to these experiences and are sharing what we find. It is not meant to wave a flag like someone with a messianic complex, yet these apparent evolutionary understandings are real. We’ve all been waiting for ‘something’ to begin happening. Let me diverge on a tangential congruency for a moment.

Our world is changing rapidly and people are recognizing the need for authenticity, honesty and integrity toward others. This factor alone promotes an attraction of ‘God drops’ or ‘insightful moments’ where many facts that have been collected suddenly have a ‘domino effect’ as the dots are connected in consciousness, where an instantaneous pulse of ‘light’ extends and contracts in all of a nanosecond. The affect is felt as a profound moment of connection beyond comprehension, a cognitive cohesion of congruent thoughts if you will, a peace that surpasseth understanding. Sometimes it feels like a short heart-pulse of such incredible depth that articulating the understanding could take years.

A short time ago I was astonished at the connections from a continent away with regard to this process. I’d been experimenting in these inner worlds for some years, not realizing that others had access, too, because I rarely encountered anyone, let alone consciously recognized them. Still, I could not deny what I knew and shared nor the reflection provided by the members of the RAHMA Mission group in Santiago, Chile. Part of me is astounded at the humble happening, a greater part is awed by the inspiration this experience offered others.

As you look at the figure above, an example of the ‘spin’ defined in the merkaba meditations mentioned previously, the obvious ‘star’ configuration appears in irrefutable magnificence, resonance and recapitulation of the sacred geometry of space/time. Consider that the points of the star are the exit and entrance of a single point of light moving though a ‘plane,’ an example of the ‘trinity’ appears like the proton, neutron, and electron, sublime and revealed in the spiritual quest for the cosmic conundrum: ‘Who Am I?’ and more importantly, ‘How Am I?’ Interestingly enough, I’d also been given another ‘Star of David’ with additional details over 20 years ago while standing in front of a precision grinding machine at an aerospace company…my day job.

All I did at the time was listen and follow subtle promptings of the ‘voice within’ that I had known for years and trusted implicitly. This image appeared to have many ancient symbols included in its design, somehow reflecting some deep-seated triggers to my own investigation of the nature of Creation and our designated purpose within it (the cosmic conundrum). Knowing oneself is the first step to finding one’s path. Researching this symbol, and its various sub-symbols has led to some phenomenal experiences and understanding, with the articulation of deeper developments still in process.

Moving along to the Torus…

Although a simple process, the explanation of a prescribed path to a merkaba activation meditation and inner experience can be challenging and difficult, at best. Moving inward with the flow of introspection for integration, we often feel the swirling flow engulf us as we journey the rainbow matrix. I began using a term called ‘egocentripidy’ some time ago as evidence of the necessary incorporation and integration of the ego, which many feel to be a deterrent to the mastery of self.

A naive perspective of Oneness would indicate that everything is included. A discussion of the Fibonacci sequence revealed an interesting correlation to the torus. Seems this serendipity spawned symbiotic samples on a variety of e-group lists in the summer/fall of 2001. At any rate, I trust it is helpful. I may not always be able to express in a language compatible with all, yet the gift of intelligence with a large vocabulary allows an interesting wordsmithing to the cosmic myth weaving process…

Using the example of Einstein’s torus below, imagine what a multi-dimensional folding in/out of these planes would engage in the realms of consciousness. Might it lead to a further recognition of a holistic view of living, complete with a natural urge to merge with our Creators?If you notice, the various numeric sequences produce patterns on the torus. There is another graph that demonstrates just how the numbers lay out on a single plane yet, as applied to this model, produce a series of interconnecting planes/dimensions/worlds. The nature of the torus is to be constantly turning in/folding out, so these ‘worlds’ are constantly being integrated or ‘shared’ as the torus activity continues.

Now, here is the mind-blower… we each have one of these in the center of our being, constantly in motion with pulses and spins of unimaginable magnitude. What is the result? What do you think? What do you feel? What do you do? What life unfolds? What living environment results when many experience this process? We increase our awareness of ‘what is’ and are therefore more capable of experiencing ‘unconditional love’ or ‘pure shareable energy’ in the process. It is as simple as a single breath in complete trust of All That Is.

When we breath, feel, and think from this point within our natural metaphysical makeup, our ability to perceive and our awareness of self and others is magnified beyond dogma and tradition. Walking with this ‘conceptual image’ looks much like the image below, put together as a complete sphere. It resembles the electromagnetic fields of the earth as well.I’ll borrow a piece from a friend to explain the ‘horn torus.’ The Horn Torus (nearly spherical torus with an infinitesimally small/wide center) Universe is often mistaken for being a sphere. All spheres in the universe share the connection to the center of this torus, including the ‘great sphere.’

The outside of the torus (the ‘outer bounds’ of the boundless infinite universe) is also the same surface as the center. Everything contained within the outer surface and the center is also in the center. This applies to the individual as well as the collective, like fractals of the ONE. We are all one, and all exist within that singularity of oneness. Higher vibrational existence will not mean we are abandoning physicality, or dense realities such as this one. What it will mean is that we can experience such realities without getting “stuck ” in them.

What’s really interesting is that we go through our lives with a fluidity of experience already, from one event to another. We carry emotional charges throughout our lives resulting from our experience. This example goes beyond the emotional bindings of the mental bias that we often create without realizing it. When one reaches a place of ‘unconditional love’ these emotional charges are nullified. Of course this is only an intellectual explanation of the process. Living in LOVE, what might be called Limitless Oscillating Vibrational Energy, is the greatest challenge of all humanity and the objective of all spiritual teachings. Somewhere along the way, our understanding of science and spirituality becomes congruent.

Fibonacci revisited…

rodinThe Fibonacci sequence is the mathematical expression of the fractal that apparently exists at the core of every natural order, including human DNA. The discovery of the ‘Golden Mean’ is the basis for one of he most profound mathematical postulations of history, the Pythagorean Theory. Researching this further on your own is highly recommended. This sequence also produces an array of symbols, including several variations of the 6-pointed hexagram, or star tetrahedron in 3d. Spiritual mathematicians or sacred geometrists have often talked about the ‘X’ factor that enables access to the other worlds on a fully conscious level.

In looking at one of the sequences of exploration, there is a pattern that, when drawn connecting specific points, reveals an open-ended square with an ‘X’ in the middle, hence I suppose, the ‘X’ factor. Not the type of thing you would figure from such a symmetrical sequence. Paradoxes abound in the quest for the cosmic conundrum. Interestingly enough, the ‘X’ becomes a swastika as it begins to spin. The swastika becomes the medicine wheel and both are ubiquitous in religious symbology. Again, when one looses the ‘charge’ associated with either image, a natural understanding unfolds quite organically.

When the number sequence is reversed it produces a ‘Z’ shape across the middle of the star. So far, this key to the door of our inner experience is more of a ‘Z’ factor. Could this fit with yet another paradox; looking deeper in the mirror and the journey down the proverbial rabbit hole? Musing as it is, one of my partner’s pet names for me is ‘Z-man’ as I seem to help her spin in/out when she meditates close to me physically.

A morning meditation just after the late-night/early-morning discussion revealed how it looked in 3d, with the upper and lower lines curved in opposite directions and the center line slightly curved as though it were representing a spinning ‘Z’, which is what the entrance to the portals resemble as  one looks down upon the ‘Z,’ which is not to say that we are superior beings. Imagine looking down a tube with a Z-shaped spiraled blade  (or S-shaped depending on the top of bottom view) spinning at varying speeds. I think you get the picture.

The ‘X’ factor is revealed when you consider going AND returning, the mirror images, or spins. It shows up as an ‘X’ or a swastika on a two-dimensional model. When viewed from an internal point of perspective one can literally watch as the implosion and explosion occurs simultaneously and in perfect harmony.This also ties into the rotating feathered serpent medicine wheel that the Mayans spoke of and Jose Arguelles described could be seen above the ‘gathering places’ during the Harmonic Convergence in 1987. Most other cultures have similar descriptions of this imagery, whether in a positive or negative light indicates their inability to see things as ‘whole’ at the time.

Humans have always tended to separate their experience into polarities of fear and love, separation from and union with the Divine. To simply observe this imagery without criticism leads to freedom of the mind and alignment with heart. Sounds so simple doesn’t it? I saw the rotating feathered serpent medicine wheel during a campout with my family the weekend of the Harmonic Convergence when I asked, “If God created us then who created God?,” and it appeared again during a group meditation with some friends before returning to Phoenix in the fall of 2001.

These friends asked if we could meditate to the music my band had produced as they felt incorporating our music would help facilitate the opening of these portals. The music fits the genres of ‘celestial rock’ or ‘progressive improv’ and I had used it for guided meditations and hypnotherapy sessions in the past. What we experienced was nothing short of amazing.This image also seems to be reflected in the spiraled helix of our DNA, only minus one cross-member, simplified to some extent.

What if you included the yin/yang as a two-dimensional version of a cross-section of DNA, with the energy movements of ‘on and off’ represented by black and white? By that I mean when one looks at a top-down black and white view of pulsing energy through the DNA helix, the TAO appears. This is another indicator of the spindoctoring of  internal understanding [innate knowing] of the truth of our creation that is within our own being as evidence of ‘How We Are,’ not just ‘Who We Are.’

The etheric empiricists [channels of pseudo-science] cite tens to thousands of ‘additional strands’ through some cosmically controlled ascension of planet Earth to offer some validity of the expansion of consciousness as part of a Master Plan. I cannot speak to the intricacies of our genetic material. However, the appearance of this pattern [Golden Mean] would indicate that there is correlation in all forms in creation, or at least what we can recognize so far. This seems to be making us one big family, eh?

What the relevance may be now is that as we move in and out of various worlds, or even aboard ship (apparently there is a large group who experience individual and collective trips), this pattern is recognizable in the movements throughout the rainbow highways of the Universe available to the spiritual experiencer/seeker. As a result of an amazing increase of spiritual initiates, we are beginning to see the fallacy in putting our trust in the things of this world and those who manage them.

Personal gain has not relinquished its hold on the human psyche just yet. It just doesn’t appear that the right dots are being connected for the benefit of humanity and world leaders appear helpless in the shadow of corporate expansion. Now this might seem an incongruence in the discussion so far. What of the person that is so spiritual that they are no earthly good? It only seems appropriate that our growth in understanding and wisdom of who and how we are would lead us to better collaboration in worldly affairs.

Many are beginning to traverse the intradimensional pathways, encountering some difficulty with the sensations of letting go of the physical form in order to journey. Perhaps the foreknowledge of some of the visuals will make the transitions flow more easily. My sense is that we are already familiar with these pathways from dreamtime. Still as just mentioned, our quest is not about leaving the physical form. Our evolutionary pattern seems to point to the integration of our physical form into a greater experience, where we have the opportunity to live in many mansions simultaneously.

The more we realize these things, and that transcendence often happens in nanoseconds [speed of thought], the more capacity we have to act in the now. The present moment contains the connective dots of past and future views, generations of possibility, and allows us to make better choices in the management of our day-to-day activity. The human race is not simply going to go ‘poof’ into some perfect state of existence, in my humble opinion. The reality is that it is going to take inner and outer activity to match the needs of our whole being, which just happens to be anchored in these physical bodies now, yet obviously goes way beyond them.

An Application of the Z-factor

zmatrixCosmologically our planetary vibration is increasing subtly as we move into new areas of space that some refer to as the Photon Belt, possibly corresponding to the move into the ‘Aquarian Age.’ This also corresponds to an increase in subtle energy vibrations that permeate our feeling worlds. Subtle vibrations are the magnificent manifestations of conscious energy, our own and our Creators’. Now, as vibratory levels have been on the rise, the experiences of ‘inner awareness’ are becoming more prevalent in waking states of consciousness, often facilitated with music and/or other catalysts yet not necessary as meditation alone offers access to these realms.

Strangely enough this also corresponds to an experience I had a decade before, where I was apparently selected for an ‘abduction’ by non-human intelligence which really wasn’t an abduction at all. I learned that their technology is being used to subtly adjust the vibratory rates of certain humans to make it easier to communicate with them. Concurrently, this action also promotes a greater sensitivity within those same humans. Hundreds, if not thousands, of these cases exist but have not been understood to this depth. We’re only scratching the surface of understanding the timeline of ‘soular’ evolution in my opinion.

Regular journeying through meditation seems to remove the fears and emotional disturbances as well, although it doesn’t seem to do too much for daily routines of procrastination or global domination yet. Maybe it has something to do with that eye of the needle thing. The visual pattern is also reminiscent of the merkaba craft generation which is known to facilitate inter- and intrastellar (inside) travel among certain groups of space cadets. This may be helpful in creating better ship to shore communications and travel. I’d recommend at least exploring the merkaba craft generation link.

Let’s look at a direct application of these theorems. This experience provided all participants entrance into realms within consciousness that we rarely explore. These areas are available through what some call the ‘activation of the merkaba’ and using this ‘ship’ as a vehicle. Let me explain what it looked like as our higher selves ‘visioneered’ the process. We all held hands and offered a prayer of unity and protection as we began our internal journey. As the music progressed (first tune was what you are listening to now) I began to ‘vision’ three tubes of light connecting the opposite points of the six-pointed star commonly identified as the Star of David.

These tubes of light had energy flowing in opposite directions simultaneously within them. As they began to increase in flow, the tubes split and began rotating with the points of the star as axis points. The spin became so fast that it became a sphere around us, gradually spreading out into the shape of a saucer-type craft. Crafty as it was, the natural expansion of the light was intense. The edges reached to the edge of the visible horizon within my scope of vision.

At this point, in the center of our circle, there became visible two rotating swastikas. One was moving clockwise, the other counter-clockwise, with trailing edges making it look the Mayan perspective of the rotating feathered serpent medicine wheel. The spinning increased and began to pulse images of each simultaneously upward and downward into infinity. As the rotation continued, the two began to oscillate inward and outward in mirror-like fashion. As one would move outward, the other would move inward and then reverse. The whole thing looked like a transporter beam from Star Trek, with rainbow sparkled filaments throughout the entire movement of the wheels.

As this was taking place, I began to see images like those that Dan Winter had presented in his video presentations of the Fibonacci sequence and its relationship with the Golden Mean (.618) which is how the Pyramids in Egypt are arranged reflecting the mathematical spiral of the expression of the Golden Mean’s graphic form. The image, though, was actually of the vortex representing the compression, or implosion, of pure sharable energy through the center of our hearts. Many waveforms ‘nest’ within each other as this process takes place with each heartbeat that is aligned with pure shareable energy… that which is in alignment with Natural Order of Creation.

Our understanding of chaos flows into natural order as well as we tame the beast (mind) within us all. There is an interesting reference to the word ‘satan’ that indicates the word came from the Greek ‘thetan’ and actually means ‘thinker.’ Some smart fellow thought it would be convenient with a nearly illiterate public to supplant ‘thetan’ with ‘satan’ in order to confabulate early religious teachings. The result enabled Constantine to effectively include all the pagan nuances in the newly constructed religious text so populations could be controlled. It was the first marriage of church and state… but I digress.

This vortex looks like two cones that are connected by the tops and appear like an hourglass form with the top and bottom fanning out like a megaphone. Yet, once inside it takes on seeming infinite dimensions with all the rainbow-sparkled movement of fluid light tails. These waveforms were visible as they came into the center of the group, through the center, and releasing again on the other side. It is well known that our ascension process is primarily related to aligning with the pure energy of Creation in our bio-spiritual evolutionary pathway. Even within the point of light at the center of our Heart of Hearts, there is a doorway into the Void, also known as a Black Hole is cosmological terms.

This is our connection with the ONE, from whence all Creation manifests through light and sound. From this place we can see infinitely inward and infinitely outward simultaneously. The place of no beginning and no ending. The image below offers some resemblance.When the tape reached the end of the first side I reflected on what I had scene and thought that it would be beneficial to ask the others what their experience was before saying a word about mine. Often, we do not reflect with each other what our internal experiences are with meditative environments. Granted, the Ascended Masters have often said, ‘to know, to dare, to do, and to be silent.’

Well, this was because the experiences were so rare that when one would share, the energy would be disbursed by the disbelief of others. In this case, and others, we were paracelestparticipating in openness and devotion to the ONE. It felt appropriate to ask the others to share from that perspective. Although the language used (descriptive terms) was somewhat varied, the experience was definitely shared by all of us. I’ve been able to facilitate other group experiences with larger groups as well, using our music. The descriptions of the participants have been phenomenal to say the least. Oh, yes… I forgot to mention the music was created by Outcasts and Social Misfits, the guys I’ve played music with for over a decade. Here’s the CD that was eventually published.

The prevalent experience of the second side of the tape that we all related was of unfolding into winged creatures. The others saw themselves as Angels who gently surrounded the group with their wings as a sign of love and nurturing to one another. I, on the other hand, made the same gesture, yet I saw myself as a white dragon. I’ve been shown the reality of this in too many ways to mention here. Still, I’m just a human being with way too much outside the boxness to fit into many situations and ‘normal’ environments.

So, I tend to express myself with no regrets or thoughts of repercussions, acknowledging letting go of attachment to outcome. Granted, if I were in somebody else’s shoes, I’d probably have some major difficulties with my ‘story’ and potential benefit.The TRUTH IS LOVE… and waging war in righteousness is in process. This does not mean violence toward my fellowman. Just the opposite. We are being aligned now in order to take our rightful place among the Cosmic Order of Creation. This includes many worlds already, as we might view our visible light spectrum as one of these worlds, there are others visible through our inner sight.

In time, these will also be as visible as our current realm. Currently, our youth are already sensing these realms, causing major boredom in classrooms and aberrant behavior due to our lack of understanding this and providing them with relevant educational processes. We drug these same children to put the back into the ‘box’ that we’ve allowed ourselves to be contained in when they [children] were never meant to be in it in the first place. They have far more sensitivity and understanding of connectedness than most adults, yet we fail them miserably because we do not pay attention to their messages to us, consequently they become ‘labeled’ and put into various ‘programs’ to rehabilitate. Some just exit the ‘system’ altogether.

In Arizona alone, just last year, over 50% of the youth detained by police where NOT enrolled in school. The fact is- we have not habilitated them to begin with, nor ourselves for that matter. We need some methods to teach through holistic education, like Spectrum Academy might offer.Many are seeking understanding of the Nature of our Being in this period of our planetary evolution. The children aren’t the only ones that are having difficulty finding their ‘center.’ As those gather in devotion to this pure sharable energy, we begin to become aware of our ‘godhood’ as we gain awareness of additional levels of consciousness and their applications. I often speak of the ‘other’ 45 senses in the 90% of our brain that science has thought to be dormant (simple ratio of senses to brain capacity).

As complete Beings nothing is dormant, only our awareness of it. So these processes allow us to have direct experience of these realms of consciousness and subsequently makes them REAL to each of us. As we become aware of these realms, we also become aware of our individuation and ‘role’ within the overall scheme of Creation. We are ONE yet have perfect fractalization that allows us to ‘find’ our perfect place in both consciousness and physical creation. We all know that we each have a ‘Divine Purpose’ for which we spend countless amounts of time pondering in our quest to find connection to ALL THAT IS.

Imagine a high school with the mission to empower young men and women to achieve the awareness and implementation of their life’s purpose today. My partner actually teaches at one now, so things are looking up. Imagine this concept carried through a college or university environment. How about an entire village?

Consistent with this line of logic, and recognizing many are incarnating from ‘other’ realms now, there are those who are discovering and sharing this understanding and the methodologies to develop them within oneself. I AM one of those who has come to do this and more. I Am One of Many. We’ve all had to move beyond the Messianic Complex. Understanding that one can simultaneously incarnate as a planet and administrator (in times past) brings us a bit closure to realizing that the more we know the more our ignorance exponentiates.

As we release the fear that ignorance promotes, there are many new experiences of connectivity that become available. Resistance to it is truly futile as this growth and connectivity is imbedded within our natural evolutionary process. JJ Hurtak’s book, “The Keys of Enoch,” addresses this very point. Even when we can ‘hear’ the ‘white noise’ in the silence within, we can gently rest in the arms of the dragon as we descend beyond the sound. This, too, opens up worlds of wonder…WOW.

It is time we knew more of who and what we are. “The Urantia Book” provides some very in-depth explorations of the spiritual and material hierarchies of Creation. An open mind and heart with sincere questions can uncover truth beyond the imagination of most people. Books aren’t necessarily ‘the way’ as much as they are a ‘verification’ of what others have found in their unadulterated search. They approach it as a child. Truth will always be self-revealing and promotes unity of action toward demonstrable reflection in our outer reality.

Simply put… we live in harmony with each other and the planet. The example I have been given to share to illustrate this, and the development of the new world order unlike what you’ve heard about in the news, is the Genesis II Community that is an extension of Spectrum Academy. The concept is an extension of work begun with the UN with some encouragement from Winifred Barton, a dear and precious soul who is now in her 90th decade on Earth. Your gifts of L.O.V.E. (limitless oscillating vibrational energy) are always appreciated and will reflect in glorious ways in your own lives.

Enigmatic Ethical Dilemmas

SignEnigmatic Ethical Dilemmas

Enigmatic ethical dilemmas are prevalent in today’s world. Our society faces such perverted business practices, i.e. the push for the pipeline, in a surrealistic daily life. Yet, it is up to each individual to recognize his or her own accountability and act responsibly. Relationships, personal and professional, engage prioritized needs in the quest for balance and appropriate service to family, friends and profession.

Family presents a plethora of enigmatic dilemmas on all levels of intimate vulnerability. Friends, especially close ones, transcend boundaries of vulnerability to truly demonstrate their willingness to address concerns. Professional environments require a certain reticence toward the vestibule of vulnerability. Facilitating positive outcomes often requires one to be instantly critically self-reflective toward self and others in order to empower harmony in the world around them.

Family order, in its purest sense, relies on the familial sense of community within the core of the emotions that provide the foundation for action, engagement or response with the world. As a teen, we engage life in a more irresponsible manner as we search for identity and purpose. Our behaviors as teens and young adults do not always reflect the same desires for our children as they reach these critical periods of their maturation process.

Observing certain behaviors or habits in teens is not too difficult, especially having been down many of the same paths. That does not always make them pleasant. As a parent, we face a new level of responsibility for our beloved babies, yet nurturing their growth is often a moment-to-moment action driven by a desire for complete honesty. Truth does not always mean full disclosure. My father said those words to me as a teenager. It took me years to realize the depth of their meaning, let alone apply them with my children.

Teens nearing the point of being on their own develop certain attitudes as part of their process, to greater or lesser degrees, depending on their past environments. As flexible and malleable as children are to their own desires, they lack critical reflection of their action’s affects on their environment, specifically the ‘harmony’ of the house. Emotional stability, i.e. the single parent’s self image, is important to the well being of the house.

The enigmatic ethical dilemma here: How do you affect change with the least chaos and still require integrity and respect toward others in the teenage behaviors?

In the quest for successful outcomes, critical conversation between parenting parties is most important. Obvious as it may be, even adults often have considerable problems when critically reflecting on their child rearing skills. Vulnerability transcends timidity as a unified front evolves through this discovery process. It is the discovery in the sense that we, parenting partners, are establishing what we consider to be agreeable levels of acceptable accountability.

How does one inquire of what another feels acceptable without creating defensiveness or self-judgment of parenting progress to date? Interpersonal skills undoubtedly come into play, yet critical reflection of assumptions regarding discovery of another’s value system may not always produce pleasant results.

Friends, on the other hand are usually less intimate in their levels of expressed vulnerability. The best friends are those who risk their friendships to be direct and honest in respect of their friendship. Longevity of relationship often allows greater levels of vulnerability and depth of conversation. Shared activities in specific areas of passion, such as playing music, increases the opportunities for in-depth conversation and discovery of deeper connections to each other and to life.

Some types of music require a much greater sense of openness due to the nature and style of music and the need for ‘feeling’ each other’s groove, so to speak. Great improvisational artists are often deep thinkers and tend to relate to their environment more from a feeling level; a ‘gut’ instinct response as opposed to calculated reasoning.

Being able to honestly believe that I had no cause for alarm, the enigmatic ethical dilemma was in how to deal with obvious problems. Whether the problem was a lack of attentiveness or dishonesty and thievery only exacerbated emotions that were already in the undesirable category. A wise man, rector of a Taoist sanctuary, once shared that there is no right or wrong, only what is more desirable or less desirable in regard to outcomes.

Patterns are prevalent, whether obvious or not so obvious. What we do anywhere we do everywhere. If we are easily swayed by circumstances to act dishonorably, then how can we expect life to respond kindly? Unfortunately, these types of situations have the potential to damage relationships when they are not addressed. Occasionally situations cause normally honest people to act dishonestly. Can we forgive and forget? Are we are brother’s keeper, and as such, empowered to confront in kindness? What are the risks and rewards?

Professionally speaking, one has a commitment to performing in order to fulfill job description requirements. Right action is predicated upon desired results. In large companies, many people must work together cooperatively to fulfill the needs of the company, be it building widgets or providing software support. In these environments, Maslow’s hierarchy of needs plays a major role in personal motivations.

When one is confident and produces results with relative ease, others begin to question their methodology. Some will look at the success with disdain while others will inquire of the secrets to their success. A good manager will usually empower the people below them by capitalizing on the successful techniques and sharing them through less direct methods, such as interpersonal skills development.

In one particular case involving the aerospace industry, the use of interpersonal skills gave this one quite an advantage in an arena that seemed to be bereft of these types of individuals. Promotions came quickly into the most dynamic area of the company; production control. In a departmental meeting, consisting of nearly 40 individuals, the basic reaffirmations of job duties and requirements were made with special emphasis on soliciting ideas from the group as to how management could better support the department and its people.

This one, not realizing the inherent snake pit, spoke up with the request for interpersonal skills classes. He honored the ability of those who came up through the expediting realms and their success. He also stated that now the daily dealings were with professionals, most of which held degrees and had been in professional environments for some time, requiring a greater skill level to accomplish tasks without any real authority.

Traditionally the power hungry, go-to-your-boss types exacerbated these environments and inherent difficulties with production schedules if their needs were not met. Success was had at the expense of others in most cases and too often one had to watch the back to make sure that nothing was sticking out of it. Some of the personalities were so blatantly self-serving that production flow was stifled just because of insubordinate actions of others in retaliation of aberrant attitudes.

After suggesting interpersonal skills classes, this one was shunned by many of the department’s staff. Nearly a year later there was another meeting and it was discovered only after its completion. Acknowledging the faux pas, the suggestion of interpersonal skills classes was made again, citing that the job was people working with people no matter what the product. A request for a consultant was made and the search performed by myself, accessing the network of professional through University of Phoenix.

Three weeks later we had a small meeting, the consultant, the general supervisor and myself, who was still just a member of the department with no management involvement. The consultant presented his team building approach, referencing work he had been doing for the Navy, Motorola, Sperry, Honeywell, and Intel. The general supervisor genuinely liked the prospects of what this program offered and acknowledged that he would have to consult with his superiors before making a decision.

Another three weeks passed. One day my supervisor, along with the general supervisor came up to me with the news that I was being demoted. It was decided that I was not performing up to standards and with my personal problems, an imminent divorce, they thought it best that I return to second shift for a while, resuming work in an old position as an expediter. I was at a loss and felt totally degraded. What could I do?

Just out of curiosity I had a friend look into the statistical records of department performance. My rating was one of the highest in the department, always exceeding goals. The one thing that I could take pride in, having accepted the demise of my marriage, was taken away. To this day I have trouble rationalizing the results of my best efforts to serve the company. How could this have happened?

There were no other warning signs, or at least none I felt apparent. Now, what could I do to show the iniquity? Was it worth the time and effort to stir the pot to find out? Would it have been prudent to file a grievance with our human resources department? What could I base it on? The department statistics were supposed to be confidential and available only to managers.

Unfortunately I took the easy road and did nothing. I was emotionally bereft from major efforts to keep our marriage together. I felt like I’d put my best foot forward in both worlds and was currently legless, having lost both at the hips. Somehow I made it through and came to the belief that it was all for the best. I was fine being responsible for production of units used in commercial applications. I had recently just come off a task-team that had been working on reducing military spares delinquent shipments.

I’d made a suggestion to the team leader that, when he followed through, brought him an $800 suggestion award. It was apparent that if I was going to stay in that environment that I was going to have to become just like it. Rather than having to make the choice, it was made for me. Still, if I were in a similar situation today, I would do it all over again. The company eventually brought classes in a year after I left. The job got done, even though I wasn’t there to witness.

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